I want a boy who is LEARNING....
Learning from his mistakes....
Learning from the mistakes of others....
Learning how to give without expecting anything in return....
Learning how to forgive others for their shortcomings....
Learning how to find true אמת in a world brimming with שקר....
Learning how to take no for an answer....
Learning how to accept the will of השם when life gets stormy....
Learning how to utilize the tools השם gave him to become a better עבד השם ....
Learning how to find good in the frustrating nuances that happen throughout his day....
Learning how to grow and become A BETTER HIM.
I want a boy who is WORKING....
Working towards a greater goal....
Working on his מדות a little bit more each day....
Working on strengthening his relationships with his rebbeim....
Working on improving his relationships with his family and friends....
Working on deepening his connection to הקב"ה daily....
Working on giving life all he's got....
Working on thanking השם for all the little things in life....
Working on finding השגחת השם in everything that happens to him throughout his day....
Working to overcome his natural negative tendencies....
Working on bringing משיח a little bit closer every day....
Working on growing and becoming A BETTER HIM.
THIS is the person I want to marry.
Just learning? Only working?! Forget that idea! I want BOTH.
