Sunday, 5 July 2015

Please Treat Me Like Your Cell Phone

                                                                                   
PLEASE TREAT ME LIKE YOUR CELL PHONE

 Dear Husband



1. Always have me in mind
2. Never leave me behind
3. Respond when I speak to you
4. Make sure I'm always in a safe, good place
5. Give me a listening ear
6. Care to know where I am
7. Take time to renew our contract periodically
8. Cash in on those free minutes
9. Remember to recharge when I'm low.
10. And always remember to add money when needed.

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Dear Wife

No problem, I will, if you promise to:
1. Talk to me with respect
2. Always begin with a nice happy melody
3. Wait patiently until I have time to listen to you
4. Always be there for me to remind me about my appointments and simchas, to wake me and to remember my phone numbers
5. Don't get angry or insulted when I choose to delete some of your messages
6. Don't forget my messages
7. Make sure to stick to all the conditions in our contract
8. Continue services even if not all conditions are met on my part
9. Start each day with full energy regardless of how low you ran on the previous day
10. Start fresh when money is added.


Happy

What makes HAPPY people happy?           (Shared by Toby Lieder}

What are the differences between happy people and unhappy people? Of course, it should be very obvious:happy people are happy while  unhappy people are unhappy, right? Well, that is correct.But, we want to know what happy people do differently, so I have put together a list of things that happy people do differently than unhappy people.

1. Love vs. Fear
Well, I can tell you for sure that those people who are really happy, fear less and love a lot more. They see each moment, each challenge, each person as an opportunity to discover more about themselves and the world around them.

2. Acceptance vs. Resistance 
Happy people understand that you can’t really change a situation by resisting it, but you can definitely change it by accepting that it is there and by understanding that there might be a reason for its existence.
When something unpleasant happens to them, they don’t try to fight it (they know that this will make the situation even worse), but they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I make this better? And then they focus on the positive, rather than on the negative. They always seem to see the glass half full, no matter what happens to them.

3. Forgiveness vs. Unforgiveness
Really happy people know that it’s not healthy to hold on to anger. They choose to forgive and forget, understanding that forgiveness is  a gift they give to themselves first and foremost.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned

4. Trust vs. Doubt
They trust themselves and they trust the people around them. Whether they are talking to the cleaning lady or the C.E.O. of a billion-dollar company, somehow they always seem make the person they are interacting with feel that there is something unique and special about them. They understand that beliefs are self-fulfilling prophecies.  
Because of that, they make sure to treat everyone with love, dignity and respect, and make no distinction between age, sex, social status, color, religion or race. These are the great men that Mark Twain was talking about: “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”

5. Meaning vs. Ambition
They do the things they do because of the meaning it brings into their lives and because it gives their lives a sense of purpose.  They understand that “Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life”
And they care more about living a life full of meaning than what, in our modern society we would call, living a successful life. The irony here is that most of the time they get both success and meaning because they choose to focus on doing the things they love the most and they always pursue their heart‘s desires. They are not motivated by money; they want to make a difference in the lives of those around them and in the world.

6. Praising vs. Criticising
Happy people would probably agree with Carl’s Jung theory on resistance: “What you resist not only persists, but will grow in size.  They don’t criticise the absence of the behaviour they want to reinforce, ratherthey know by praising the person and the behaviour they wish to reinforce (even if it’s not often), they will actually encourage the positive behaviour.
When a parent wants to make sure their 7 year old girl will learn to always put the toys back in the box after she’s done playing with them, they make sure not to focus on the many times the child didn’t do it, criticising her and her behaviour, but every time the little girl does put the toys back, the parent praises her and her behaviour and that is exactly how they reinforce the positive behaviour, and in the end get the wanted results.

7. Challenges vs. Problems
Happy people will see problems as challenges, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lay many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.

8. Selflessness vs, Selfishness
They do what they do not for themselves, but for the good of others, making sure that they bring meaning, empowerment and happiness to the lives of many. They look for ways to give and to share the best of themselves with the world and to make other people happy.
Before giving, the mind of the giver is happy; while giving, the mind of the giver is made peaceful; and having given, the mind of the giver is uplifted.

9. Abundance vs. Lack/ Poverty 
They have an abundant mindset, living a balanced life, achieving abundance in all areas of life.

10. Dreaming Big vs. Being Realistic 
These people don’t really care about being realistic. They love and dare to dream big, they always listen to their heart and intuition and the greatness of their accomplishments scares many of us.
Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.

11. Kindness vs. Cruelty
They are kind to themselves and others and they understand the power of self-love, self-forgiveness and self-acceptance.

12. Gratitude vs. Ingratitude
No matter where they look, no matter where they are or who they are with, they have the capacity to see beauty where most of us would only see ugliness, opportunities where most of us would only see struggles, abundance where most of us would only see lack and they express their gratitude for all of it.

13. Presence/ Engagement vs. Disengagement 
They know how to live in the present moment, appreciating what they have and where they are, while still dreaming big dreams about the future.
When you are present, you can allow the mind to be as it is without getting entangled in it. The mind in itself is a wonderful tool. Dysfunction sets in when you seek yourself in it and mistake it for who you are. 

14. Positivity vs. Negativity
No matter what happens to them, they always keep a positive perspective on everything and by doing so, they tend irritate a lot of negative and “realistic” people.





Good Quotes Failing To Plan


1                                      
Failing to plan is planning to fail

1                If you don’t like what your getting change ur doing

                  Give w/o expectations you'll never be disappointed

1            Future oriented  ‘I’ message . In the future…..

1                Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% we react

                   Extraordinary people do extraordinary stuff  101%

1               To have joy, one must share it

                  Its nice to be impt. But its more impt to be nice

             If your like everyone else, what do we need u for?

1               Focus less on why and more on what n how

                 Leave everything a little better then u found it

                 To the world u may be 1 person, but to 1 person ur the world!

2             Stand up for something or you'll fall for everything

                 What most of us need is, to need less

               If not for the last minute nothing would get done

                Everything will be ok in the end if its not, its not the end 
  
                Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday

                Be the change you want to see in the world

                Friends are G-Ds way of apologising for ur family

                Wish for what you want, work for what you need
               
                Follow your heart

                If you think you can or you think you cant, ur right

                If you give all you’ve got ull get all you’ve given

               The trouble with trouble is it always starts out fun

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